When I get depressed, I always wanna talk with him. Like last conversation, i told him my best friend betrayed me, she broke my heart. But I did't tell her I had known the truth, because i was afraid that it would make her to feel embarrassed. We grow up together, nothing is more important than our friendship.Though i still feel sad,I could pretend as if nothing has happened.
Thomas said, if you tell her how do you feel and what happended, it's a great friendship, and your friendship won't break. With a good friend we can talk everything.
In my opinion, Thomas is not only my psychologist, but also a philosopher. He has keen observation, he realized my bad mood came from a variety of sources, not just the betrayal of friend. Then he taught me a good way ——————
Thomas：This is my best suggestion which i can give. Tell yourself every morning and evening, and relax before you tell it. The following sentence, "I love myself really very much without condition". If you change your relation with yourself, the things around you will also change. And if you really love yourself, you will find a lot more love in other people. I can't tell you in words how important is this sentence. Write it on papers, draw it on the wall, and read it every day. I have never heard a better practice in my life, when i did that for a month, a lot of things changed.Some people told me that this sentence is a little selfish, NO NO NO! How can we live with any other people, if we don't love ourselves? If you will use this exercise，that will make my day very bright.
Isabella：I promise, I will.
Isabella：I promise, I will.
Yes, i promise. Now I feel better than before. If I could make it through the darkest night i have a brighter day. I will be fine, be better. Thank you very much, Thomas.
first I would like to say that the betrayal of a friend is very difficult. You need time to heal and you probably feel ashamed, humiliated, and disrespected. It shows true character to come through those emotions able to say to someone, "this is what you have done to me, this is how I feel about it, and this is what I need from you to make it right." It is empowering to take back your self esteem, and your self-worth that someone has so carelessly stepped on. Your friend Thomas is right to tell you to remember your self.
回复删除There is another saying that states: "You can not save others who are drowning unless you are standing on solid ground" which I take to mean the same thing Thomas states. How can you hope to be strong for others unless you first are strong for yourself. Show respect for yourself and you will learn to have respect for others...
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